i think she works the family to what she feels is their best result. >> rose: lord grantham seems like a nice guy. is he a nice guy? >> i hike him. i don't know that i would have a huge amount of conversation with him after the first half an hour at a dinner party. i mean -- >> because i think he is slightly out of touch. we see that a bit more in season three, that i think what i do admire about him is he tries to see the good in people, he has a liberal inclinations even if a conservative way by birth. >> rose: he wants to be fair. >> he tries to be fair but he also makes rash decisions. he loses his own sense of direction, you know, from time to time, in season 2, and he has made mistakes in season 3, so that is true of all of the characters just when you think you have them failed, you understand them, julian just twists it a bit so you see a different sort of light through the prism, really, i am fond of him but not street wise although he has been to war and seen life in that sense, and he is really not been much beyond the gentle men's clubs of london in terms of being in touch